Rachael Kirkconnellis speaking out following the conclusion ofMatt James' season ofThe Bachelor.
During Monday’s finale episode, James gavehis final rose to Kirkconnellbut did not propose. During theAfter the Final Rosespecial, he revealed to hostEmmanuel Achothat he ended their relationship after thecontroversy surrounding racially insensitive photos of hers.
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“Just when you think you found your way, life throws you onto a new path,” her caption began. “It’s unpredictable, unexplainable, and things might not go the way you hoped for. While I certainly wish things turned out differently, I also believe there is a reason for everything. We may not be able to control situations thrown our way, but we can control how we deal with it, and I believe good can come out every circumstance.”
Kirkconnell went on to say that she “never expected” her relationship with James to end the way it did, but that she respects his decision to break up.
“I knew from the first night I met Matt that he was something special, and I was praying to share something exceptional between the two of us if that’s what was meant to be,” she wrote. “While I never expected this outcome, I respect his decision completely. Of course I wish circumstances were different, but I still feel blessed for the time we did have together and the memories we made.”
“I got to fall in love, and I truly believe he was the love of my life,” she continued. “He will always hold a piece of my heart. I’ll always be hopeful and believe what’s meant to be will be.”
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Rachael Kirkconnell and Matt James.Rachael Kirkconnell/ instagram
Kirkconnell also brought attention to the racism controversy that surrounded the season, which was sparked after photos resurfaced of her attending an antebellum plantation-themed ball in 2018.
“At the least, I hope tonight sparks conversations and a level of understanding,” she wrote. “I hope it opens your mind to unlearning bias, to educating yourself, and gives you the push to initiate change.”
“There are so many actions you can take, but I believe it starts within the small corners of your life, and having these conversations with those around you,” she continued. “It can’t happen overnight and will be a never-ending ride, but I encourage you to take the leap and make a difference. We can change the world, together. I love you all and here’s to new beginnings.”
Matt James and Rachael Kirkconnell.Craig Sjodin/ ABC (2)
“Proud of you for having important conversations and the progress you’re making!“Mari Pepincommented. “Cheers to change,“Pieper Jameswrote, asSerena Pittadded “Rachie” with a heart emoji.
Whileappearing onGood Morning AmericaTuesday, James addressed whether he would consider getting back together with Kirkconnell.
“I think there is a lot of work that needs to be done before I can think about being in a relationship with anybody,” he said. “I need time to process everything that’s going on. And I want to respect Rachael and everything she’s got to do, as well.”
source: people.com
